Motivational Monday

Hello Cheekies 

I know in past posts we have talked about dreams and finding yourself quit a lot. I can't stress how important dreams are. Dreams are those hopes you think about when your day is shitty. Your dreams are who you are. They need to be big enough to scare you shitless. And sometimes the scary thing is going and achieving your dreams by yourself but sometimes you have to but other times you will have one person who wants the same thing, so you and that person can go and achieve it together. Either together or alone achieving your dreams should be the most important thing you ever do... Its either sit and wait for something to happen which from personal experience sucks or go out and do it which is something I need to do. 

There is a difference between existing and living. Living is when you go and do everything that you have ever wanted to do and completely and endlessly enjoying life which takes a lot bravery and then there is existing where you sit and hope for a change instead of being the change which brings nothing but saddness, trust me I know. I have thought non stop about this for the longest time and i decided that  I want to live instead of just exist. I realize that i will have a lot of failures but then again I will have a lot of fun and i will succeed in Living which is far more important to me than mundane life like school and jobs and any commitments that keep me from going and doing what I need to do for myself. 

You never have to do whatever everyone else is doing. You don't have to conform to a lifestyle just because everyone else is. You need to live a life of what you want. I learned recently that doing what everyone else is doing is killing my spirit. Its not what i want for my life. I kick myself for not realizing my dreams long ago but I know that the time for everything is perfect. Please Please don't do something that you don't want to do because your family did it or your friends did it and you want to keep up that reputation in the family or keep friends. It's not fair to you. No one should make you do something either. That's keeping you from being who you truly are. 

If you aren't in love with every aspect in your life its time to change. Everyone deserves happiness, everyone should be happy. Don't be afraid to change your life so you love every minute, you deserve life of happiness and joy and a lot of people forget that. 

Please go follow your dreams and make your life so stupidly happy you don't know what to do with yourself.  There needs to be more people going and living instead of existing. 

xoxo-Sam

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